..it really is though. Ask the Spirit web and you'll get a whole host of answers about the times we perceived Shadow to have escalated.it's literally not a matter of perspective because how this conflict started and who has initiated various 'milestone' activities is a matter of public record, which people have agreed upon throughout this thread.But you guys are doing the exact same thing, because ultimately who is, or even started, escalating is a matter of perspective.Has Spirit escalated? Hell yea we have.as far as i can tell, the issue isn't so much that Spirit is bullying by escalating. people have said numerous times in this thread that they're perfectly fine with the escalations, and i'll join the chorus now. what i see folks saying they don't like, though, is the repeated moralizing and shame-on-you-ing from the group doing the escalation, whether it be posts here on forums, in discord, etc.
But let’s not make this out to be Spirit is the big bad bully who is escalating for no reason.
it seems like we're all agreed that Spirit has raised the ante numerous times. however, when Shadow responds in kind, we're treated to posts about behaving ourselves, both-sides-isms, remembering there are people on the other side of the screen. i'll be honest - this is a behavior that i do experience as bullying. coming here to tell us off for supposed toxicity, whether said toxicity occurred in public or private, whether it occurred in game or out, only puts a chill on all of our actions. it frames our actual responses as toxic, even when those responses are the same things you introduced to the conflict. if it's okay for you to escalate with XYZ, then it's okay for us to respond with the same XYZ. full stop.
tl;dr nobody cares that you escalated. people in this thread need to stop trying to browbeat us for meeting the escalation. no more TEDx talks. just play the unicorns game.
For the last time, I didn’t know she was related to you. I said I was sorry!Toz said:I'm not navigating multiquote on my phone. Admin said "active" so Kamar got bopped and it was apologized for and not repeated. Naos got smoked too.
I say if they're on mwho they belong on deathsight, and consider myself free pk at all times and will play (and swing) accordingly.
Edit: also unicorns @Naos he knows what he did.