@CzciborI disagree. Shouts are as opt-in as pretty much any other form of communication. In game, you can always IGNORE someone entirely. Out of game, you can block them from whatever platform they are using to contact you. I think it is victim blaming a bit when we say that people should "monitor their emotions". Yes, people should learn when to step away from the game, but the rest of us should also show our own "emotional maturity" and realise that there is a person on the other side too. I am not justifying the bad behaviour (in fact, I even said as much in my post), but I am saying that these things don't come out of nowhere and everyone has a responsibility to make this game enjoyable for everyone else. I am saying that "IC actions" is not a blank cheque to do whatever we want if we want other people to engage with.
I have some immediate feelings about what you are posting. Shouts are opt-in and if someone is shouting in a way that is bothering you ooc and not just ic, then it might be a good idea to use shoutsoff. Because essentially in your post you are justifying bad behavior by saying his ic actions made them ooc mad. Ultimately it is up to the player to monitor their emotions and show some emotional maturity. And if shouts are hurting your ooc feelings it might be time to take a step back and examine yourself.
Edit: Also, I am curious who is 'inexperienced'? From deathsights I mostly see Whirran engaging with Spirit veteran players in combat and most shouts are directed towards them.
I think you have the timeline wrong here. Enorianite citizens were already independently joining the official war declared by Duiran, but it was only after Enorian declared war from the blockades at Duiran that Nipsy started his solo dives, and then it progressed into something more with the rest of the militia. Even after that, we decided against raiding Enorian despite the fact that the bulk of the raiders came from Enorian. We largely tried to keep it city-focused and directed the rest of any larger skirmishes or actions upon Duiran itself.Czcibor said:What was your city's objective going into the war to begin with? Because if you're entering a war with no idea of what objective you're trying to reach, then that is the problem.We entered to help Duiran, and also to beat down Bloodloch which has been antagonising Enorian for as long as I've been here. And by the end I don't see a world where it isn't clear why Enorian fought so hard. It wasn't even about Mamashi or Duiran anymore, because Bloodloch quickly showed it didn't care about them either. People literally suiciding into our city and losing multiple levels just to kill our guards and NPCs, blockades on the road killing everyone who tried to enter or leave the city including non-militia becoming a daily occurrence. Duiran may have instigated the war, but for us the war became much more personal and punitive. If that doesn't count as RP I don't know what does.