Take care, and don't worry about the things in game! If you need me to settle stuff in Aetolia I know you are trying to do but feeling overwhelmed, or just not in the mood, just let me know and I'll do that.
Health is important, and colon cancer sucks. At least it has been found in its early stage. Better chances for beating those nefarious cells into submission and non-existence!
I want to click the heart reaction because we love ya but this post is not awesome. Suffice to say I'm not sure there's any words any of us can say to help. I wish we could and it is absolutely terrible to hear you going through this man. I'm so sorry.
i've been sitting on this one for a while because i didn't want anyone to feel singled out, but some of y'all need to remember: A Request Is Not A Command
if someone says "Would you please..." or "I'm asking if you will..." or "Please don't..." or something along those lines, they're not telling you what to do! they're asking! it's a request! it's polite!
i get this "don't tell me what to do" response frequently enough - from people on my side, from Spirit, from Gods, etc. - that i can't just chalk it up to a particular character's roleplay, and while the obvious thing is to look at myself as the common denominator, i have what Alela said right in front of me. it's in writing. i know she said "please" and whatnot, that it wasn't remotely a command. it makes me feel like y'all aren't engaging honestly, or that i'm remaining some kind of cartoon in your heads, which is a bummer.