If you have to be told what "inflammatory" means you probably just shouldn't talk about the person at all.Normally I agree with you about stuff like this, but I think Nisa is insinuating that there are times when merely being critical or even just holding your ground (even if done so civilly) is construed as inflammatory or disrespectful by people who don't give benefit of the doubt that they otherwise should. It's fair to ask for clarity in regards to what constitutes inflammatory and/or vitriol when the producer says there's a zero tolerance policy, to be honest.