I'm not commenting on the thread as a whole, but I'd like to remind people that this is a sensitive topic and to please be polite to each other, rather than dismissive and rude. Forum rules, #5. Everyone's feeling it a bit right now - everyone.I'm actually going to take this into consideration and do something completely out of left field here.
Carry on.
So being as you are bringing me into this, I want to state that I also came into the meeting to be able to hash some things out, resolve things and move forward. I wasn't being condescending (or at least wasn't trying to be) when I said that even if a good point was raised, it would be argued. The admins are using both sides of the same argument (for and against the Dominion OL) to find some sort of middle ground, while also maintaining some semblance of lore, history and identity. While I understand and acknowledge that it doesn't exactly scream fair, there's not really much we can do at this point either.
Also, I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that I went into that meeting really stoked to have an opportunity to talk some of this over, and to have Rhyot start condescending to me because I was trying to make an argument was, yeah, way too much for me. I wasn't angry until I was treated like my opinions didn't matter RIGHT in front of an ADMIN while we're OOC and are supposed to be on our best behavior.
This is a huge question @Tetchta, so forgive me in advance if this ends up being a huge answer.
So I guess to rephrase the question: what is the best way we, as players, can make it clear that when we give feedback that it's not personal, and what's the best way to reduce hurt feelings all around? Maybe I'm just talking for myself, but I don't think I've ever been angry at a Celani for stuff they've implimented in game, even a little.
I hate you for encouraging them to even consider it. Now I am in need of @Haelra's apple-green puppies.Saidenn said:Edit: In a simple numerical answer, how many ways can you imagine to murder @Elene's character, and how many of them do you think she would enjoy?